We Don’t Need More Politicians — We Need More Fathers
- Jason Abt

- May 2
- 4 min read
Updated: May 3
The collapse of America won’t be stopped in Congress—it’ll be stopped in the living room, where real fathers rise and take the lead.

We keep hearing the same noise every election cycle. "Vote for me and I’ll fix everything!" As if some new face in a suit is going to magically solve what’s broken deep in the soul of this country. We’ve had red waves. We’ve had blue waves. And yet, the tide keeps washing more filth onto our shores. Here’s the hard truth: the problem isn’t just in D.C. It’s in our homes.
This nation doesn’t need more career politicians. It needs dads. Real ones. Present, strong, and faithful fathers who lead, love, and protect their families. That’s where the crisis is—not in the White House, but in the living room.
Fatherlessness Is America’s Root Crisis
You want to know why kids are falling apart, why schools are chaos, why so many young men are angry, lost, feminized or addicted? Look at the stats. The breakdown of the family—specifically, the absence of fathers—is wrecking the next generation. And nobody in Congress is fixing that.
No government program can replace a father. No social worker can give a boy what a dad was supposed to teach him. No stimulus check, no TikTok influencer, and no campaign promise will restore what gets lost when a man walks out and leaves his family behind.
We’re Electing Politicians to Do What Dads Should Be Doing
America is constantly looking for saviors in the form of politicians. We treat presidents like prophets and senators like priests. Why? Because we’re starving for leadership—the kind that starts in the home. When dads abdicate their responsibility, the culture fills the void with government.
Look around. We have boys raised by iPads. Girls learning self-worth from Instagram. Teens medicated instead of mentored. And broken homes looking to broken systems to fix what was never meant to be outsourced.
It’s no surprise people treat the government like a god when they never had a father to teach them who God really is.
The Rise of Feminized Boys
Another consequence of absent fathers? Boys raised without healthy male role models often grow up overly feminized, not because masculinity is bad, but because it was never modeled for them. When a boy is raised only by a mother—with no strong, grounded man to imitate—and spends most of his formative years around emotionally unstable influencers online, he's trained to suppress his masculine instincts rather than refine and discipline them.
We now have a generation of young men who are confused about who they are, trying to find identity in trends, feelings, or whatever ideology is trending on social media. They weren’t meant to be soft and passive—they were meant to be strong, self-controlled, and mission-driven. That foundation starts at home, with a father who shows them what it means to be a man.
The Father Role Isn’t Toxic—It’s Sacred
We live in a culture that trashes masculinity as if it's some sort of disease. They call it "toxic." But what’s actually toxic is the absence of godly, masculine strength. Boys need dads to model what it means to be a man—not just physically strong, but emotionally steady, spiritually grounded, and morally upright.
Being a father isn’t about dominance. It’s about sacrificial leadership. It’s waking up early to provide, staying up late to protect, and carrying the weight of responsibility whether anyone applauds or not. And that calling isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s warfare.
The devil knows if he can break the man, he can break the family. And if he breaks the family, he breaks the nation. It’s that simple.
You Can’t Legislate Manhood
You can pass all the laws you want. You can mandate fatherhood classes, offer tax incentives for marriage, or fund mentorship programs. But none of that can create a man who takes his calling seriously. That comes from within—and from above.
Our country doesn’t just need more fathers. It needs more holy fathers. Men who fear God more than they fear being unpopular. Men who discipline with love, lead with humility, and serve with integrity. That kind of father shapes nations from the inside out.
Stop Waiting for the Next Election—Start in Your House
We spend so much time arguing over who’s going to fix America when the real battlefield is under our own roof. If every father took up his role with the seriousness it deserves, you wouldn’t need half the laws we have on the books.
You want to end youth crime? Be a father. You want to fix education? Start at the dinner table. You want to restore morality? Open the Bible in your living room. You want to heal the nation? Lead your family to church.
It starts with you. Not the next guy in office. Not the next bill in Congress. You.
A Word to the Men Who Feel Disqualified
Maybe you didn’t grow up with a dad yourself. Maybe you feel like you’ve screwed up too much to lead your kids. Let me tell you something: God specializes in restoration. He’s not looking for perfect men. He’s looking for willing men.
Don’t let shame keep you on the sidelines. Step up. Show up. Even if you’ve failed, you can start again. Every moment you lean into your role as a father, you push back the darkness. And trust me—your kids don’t need a flawless hero. They need a faithful one.
To the Politicians Reading This (If Any Are):
If you really want to save this country, stop trying to be celebrities. Start talking about the family. Use your platform to elevate fatherhood, not just pad your campaign. Quit ignoring the spiritual decay and start pushing for policies that honor the nuclear family instead of dismantling it.
But truthfully? I don’t expect you to. Most of you are too busy playing optics. Which is why I’m writing this to the fathers instead. Because they’re the ones who actually have the power to change this country.
Final Thought
America doesn’t need another politician promising to fight for our values while collecting donations and playing both sides.
We need men in boots and baseball caps who come home from work, hug their kids, pray with their wives, and take spiritual authority over their homes.
We need fewer influencers and more intercessors.
We need less politics and more fatherhood.
If that offends you, you probably needed to hear it.
Time to lead. Your house is your first battlefield. Win that one first.




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